You have finally started seeing someone fantastic. You get along well, have fun together, and everything appears to be going well. The only issue? They have a job in different states. Or perhaps you met someone online who lives in a different country
Though it may appear risky or complex, long-distance relationships can succeed. We have compiled a list of the best tips for surviving and thriving in a long-distance relationship.
Have Your Cuddle Buddy
It is not easy to connect with your long-distance partner. That is why having your cuddle buddy makes managing a long-distance relationship so much easier. Getting a stuffed animal for your significant other is a great way to keep them company when you are apart.
Your cuddle buddy is a representation of your significant other. When you are apart, your cuddle buddy is there for you. It provides them with a source of physical intimacy in long-distance relationships.
Talk Everyday
If you were not dating long distance, you would probably be having dinner together, talking on the couch, or snuggling on the couch. However, just because you are not physically close to your partner does not mean you cannot give them your undivided attention and make them feel important. If you are communicating but not in person, make sure you are not multitasking and that you have put all of your other tasks on hold.
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Participate in group activities
Just because you are far apart do not mean you cannot participate in something you both enjoy together. When a long-distance relationship separates you, it is easy to feel that you are growing apart because your day-to-day lives are dissimilar. So, spend some time doing things with your partner to stay connected. Try reading the same book, Fifty Shades of Grey, at the same time, competing against each other in a computer or video game, or even doing an at-home workout with the camera turned on so you can motivate each other. “When you work on the same goals or projects, you can grow together.
Do not ignore intimacy
In many long-distance relationships, maintaining sexual intimacy is a significant challenge. If you and your partner have regular sex, you may be bothered by the lack of intimate contact while you are separated for weeks or months.
Even from a distance, you can maintain an intimate connection through:
- Consensual masturbation during a video chat
- Sending erotic emails, letters, or chats
- Talking about sex and things you would like to try.
- Exchanging sexy photos (make sure your massaging app is secure)
It is okay to feel shy at first, but do not be afraid to express your feelings. After all, sharing awkward moments can often aid in developing intimacy.
Discuss How Often You Want to Talk
Decide how often you want to talk throughout the day when you first start a long-distance relationship. You may both agree that you want to talk frequently but disagree on what that entails. If your ideal levels of communication differ, reaching an agreement early on can help avoid frustration later.
A communication schedule can also be beneficial. This schedule does not have to be rigid, but knowing when you heard from your partner next can be comforting.
Scheduling more extended conversations when you are both at your best can help you connect. For instance, if your partner is a night person and you are more of an early person, try planning calls for just before or just after dinner.
Lastly, while being in a relationship is complex, adding the additional difficulty of long-distance does not have to cloud your relationship. Being in a long-distance relationship gives you a distinct advantage. Distance teaches you to love your partner in a new light.
